Hey Sean, I know and completely understand were you coming from, its a hard decision to make but its one many of us will have to make at some point in our lifetime.
As you would more than likely remember i was very involved on the forums and then just stopped completely, in fact until recently my last post was on the 22/12/2007.
I decided to throw it all in sell the goods and start something else reefing just took to much time, time taken from a young family.
My wife and kids were not happy they loved the tanks, but in time they understood and saw the good in what i had did.
More time for the family was great and we all grew closer and stronger together. To me it was a wise choice, plus i did not have to carry darn drums full of salt water every week.
But, there is always a but, i missed having fish as i had fish constantly for almost 20 years, until now.
I have restarted my tank with the help and input of my entire family and its great, the tank is healthy and all things are going good each one of us have a duty daily and weekly, this tank is a family tank and its something for us all to do together.
I think taking a break from everything helped too as i am more relaxed and do not expect perfection, as long as everything is healthy, including the algae, the family is happy.
What i am trying to say is good luck mate, with whatever you choose to do, you will always be a inspiration to many reefers.
Respect.
Oh and good luck with the "wifes" cube. lol.
Have a beeror
As you would more than likely remember i was very involved on the forums and then just stopped completely, in fact until recently my last post was on the 22/12/2007.
I decided to throw it all in sell the goods and start something else reefing just took to much time, time taken from a young family.
My wife and kids were not happy they loved the tanks, but in time they understood and saw the good in what i had did.
More time for the family was great and we all grew closer and stronger together. To me it was a wise choice, plus i did not have to carry darn drums full of salt water every week.
But, there is always a but, i missed having fish as i had fish constantly for almost 20 years, until now.
I have restarted my tank with the help and input of my entire family and its great, the tank is healthy and all things are going good each one of us have a duty daily and weekly, this tank is a family tank and its something for us all to do together.
I think taking a break from everything helped too as i am more relaxed and do not expect perfection, as long as everything is healthy, including the algae, the family is happy.
What i am trying to say is good luck mate, with whatever you choose to do, you will always be a inspiration to many reefers.
Respect.
Oh and good luck with the "wifes" cube. lol.
Have a beeror